I hadn’t run across this before, but there is a series on how to become more manly in four parts:
The context is Vox Day’s hierarchy of manhood and explaining how to stop being a Gamma. One definition of a Gamma male is someone who was likely smarter and more sensitive than average as a child, was abused for it, and never quite grew up socially because of that. Instead, they retreated into a place where they felt they were in control and could stop the bullying. I think this series a good primer on climbing out of the pit, and a good first step before migrating away from Western Civilization to full biblical manhood. In other words, I think it’s really very hard for men to figure out where they are as Westerners until they achieve actually being a Westerner first. Virtually nobody is going to jump straight from Western Gamma male to full biblical shepherd manhood.
This four-part outline is actually not too bad regardless of where you are headed. It covers a lot of the same territory you’d need to cross either way. I’ve archived a copy of the whole thing, so you can request it in the typical formats: LibreOffice, Word, or PDF.